Strength is one of those words whose meaning changes with each person and each situation. I have overcome a lot in my lifetime; some would probably even consider that I have strength or gained strength because of the adversities. Looking back, I cannot say the same. I remember praying for strength at an early part of my adult life. When I consider what events unfolded after, I chuckle. I’ve always been told by the wise women in my life that God answers you in ways you wouldn’t foresee. For instance, if you pray for patience, you don’t become patient – you are presented with an opportunity where patience is needed. If you pray for love, you aren’t given a knight in shining armor but instead a situation in which you either give or receive love.
I prayed for strength when my oldest son was born. I shortly thereafter became a single, twenty-year-old mother, working three jobs, and living on our own. I found the need to be strong, not strength. Strength, I later realized, was inside me all along.
After a conversation with someone who is quickly becoming a very, very dear friend to me and someone I value a great deal, I began to think about those times of prayer. It’s something she said to me after a heartfelt conversation, ‘when it’s time you’ll know’. She’s right.
I’ve come to the conclusion that God gives us the qualities we pray for on the day we take our first breath. He has already gifted us with these abilities and rather than conjuring them at the opportune time, He teaches us by putting us in situations in which we need to use these gifts to our fullest advantage.
Today, I chuckled after beginning a prayer to receive answers and strength. I laugh out of fear. Fear that not only do I possess the answers I request, but also because I know I have already been given the strength needed when I hear these very same answers. It’s what I decide to do with the answers that define where my strength is most powerful and as I’ve been told once today….when it’s time I will know. I find a bit of comfort in that when I know, I’ll be strong enough to overcome and close another chapter in my life.
Life is chaos, love, chances, decisions, heartaches, and strength. Life is also as short as a baby’s breath. I intend to live it to the fullest while I can.